1、Nowadays, many young people are complaining that their parents can not understand them very well. They say that their parents take care of every aspect of their lives, leaving them unable to have their private space. Yet, parents are worried that their children dont show any respect to them and neve
2、r give them any trust.现在,许多年轻人抱怨他们的父母不太了解他们,他们认为父母对他们生活的各个方面干涉太多,使得他们没有自己的空间。然而,父母却担心孩子对他们不够尊重和信任。Consequently, a household phrase is spreading. It is the Generation Gap. By using this phrase, both the young and the old have found a good explanation for their misunderstanding of each other, yet they
3、 dont bother to take any measures to cover the distance between them.这种现象的结果使得“代沟”一词广为流传。通过使用该词,年轻人和上了岁数的人都能对存在于他们中间的误解找到很好的借口。然而,他们却不去想办法消除彼此的距离。In my opinion, I think we should first admit that there are indeed some differences between parents and children. Then, we should try to take some time to
4、 communicate with each other frequently. Not only the parents, but also the kids should be equal when exchanging their views. Only by their joint efforts, can the parents and children bridge the generation gap between them. 在我看来,首先我们应该承认父母与孩子之间的确存在着差异。然后,我们应该经常花时间去沟通。在交换彼此意见时,父母和孩子应该处于平等地位。只有通过他们的共同
5、努力,父母和孩子才能拉近彼此的距离。GenerationGap Noonecouldhavefailedtonoticethattherelationshipbetweenparentsandchildrenhasbeenavitalpublictopicnow.Lackofunderstanding,parentskidscannotexchangeideaswitheachotherfreelysometimes.wecalledthissituationgenerationgap. Whygapexists?Firstly,inmyview,differingfromparents,ch
6、ildreneasilyfacediversevariousinformation,theyarelikelydothingsontheirown.Butalwaysthinktheynotright.Soconflictoccur.Secondly,parentsbornindifferenttime,andgrowupnearlytwoworlds.Thus,generationnaturallybecomesobstacleduetime. AsfarasIamconcerned,itispossiblewecanbuildbridgespangap.Tostartwith,freque
7、ntcommunicationveryimportant.Maybewilldisappearwhiletalkother.Additionally,parentslooksomesimilarinterestkids.Iffeellikefriends,themaybevanished.Everyoneknowswithoutslightestdoubtlovenecessary,soletuscommunicateyourormoreforhavingbetterunderstandinginsteadcommonproblemmodernsociety.Itcausedbymanyvar
8、iedfactors.Butmainresponsibilityliesparents.父母比我们年龄大,所以无论是生理上还是心理上,都要比我们成熟。父母的经历和经验也比我们丰富,做事也比我们谨慎、周密。所以他们有能力采取适当的措施同子女进行沟通。如果父母没有做到这些而使自己与子女之间产生“代沟”,那么主要的责任在于父母。Physically,Parentsoldermaturethanus.Theycautiouslycarefully.Besides,theyexperiencew edo,thereforeabilitytakeappropriatemeasureschildren.If
9、butchoosekeepchildren,shouldlie从思想上讲父母不理解子女,不知道子女想什么、要什么?父母只是以自己特有的家长地位,强制性的要求子女做他们不愿意做的事,从而压制了子女心中的各种想法。认为自己说的话或是做的事都是合乎常理的,都是对的,这就会使父母与子女产生“代沟”。Fromperspectiveoption,understandknowwhatthingking.Theyownuniquepositioncompelchilrendontto.Sincestampchildsidea,thearises.从现代教育上讲子女所要接受的教育很多,而家庭教育则是子女接受教育
10、中最为重要的教育内容之一。在谈及家庭教育必然要谈到父母与子女的关系问题。我们知道,一个良好的家庭环境必然会形成一个和睦而又温暖的家庭。如果家庭中各成员之间产生隔阂,必然会对子女的成长造成一定的影响。父母的言行和品德对子女有很大的影响。从子女一出生,父母就成了子女的启蒙老师,从此他们就担负着培养和教育子女的责任和义务,同时也是他们承担的社会责任。而父母的失职就可能给家庭蒙上一层阴影,造成家庭冷漠不和,以及子女的悲观、消极思想。Intermsfa milyeducation,parentsplayanimportantpartWegoodfamilyenvironmentboundformharm
11、oniouswarmfamily.WhatsaybehavegreatinfluenceNegligencecausechildrenpessimisticnegativevalues.Thisalsofactorscausinggap.The Generation GapEvery new generation is different from the one that preceded it. Today the difference is very marked indeed.Old people are always saying that the young are not Wha
12、t they were. The same comment is made from generation to generation and it is always true. It has never been truer than it is today. The young are better educated. They have a lot more money to spend and enjoy more freedom. They grow up quickly and are not so dependent on their parents. They think m
13、ore of themselves and do not blindly accept the idea of their elders. Events which the older generation remembers vividly are nothing more than past history.Just look at the teenage girls who scream hysterically over the pop stars and the teenage boys who copy the stars and grow their hair long and are no longer ashamed of wearing pretty clothes, are simply breaking through the Chinese traditional reserve and fear of showing their feelings. What is
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