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英语听力
HonestyIstheBestPolicy
Itisusuallybettertobehonestthandishonest.Sometimeshonestymaygetyouintroubleorhurtsomeone,butusuallytellingthetruthislesshamfulthanlying.Dishonestycanresultinguiltyfeelings,causedistrustandruinyourreputation.
Oneoftheworstthingsaboutlyingisthatitcausesaguiltyconscience.Evenifononediscoversthelie,youwillknowaboutit,anditwillbotheryouforalongtime.Isalieworthallthatguilt?
Anotherproblemoccurswhenyoulietosomeone,andhelearnsthetruthanddiscoversyourlie.Thenyouwillreallybeintrouble.Hewillbeangrybecauseyouweredishonestwithhim,andhewillnotfeelthathecantrustyouanymore.Itisaverysadthingtolostsomeone’strust.Ifyouliealot,eventuallyyoumaygainareputationasaliar.Andonceyouhavegainedareputationasaliar,itisveryhardtogetridofit.Ontheotherhand,ifyouareaveryhonestperson,peoplewilltrustyou,andyouwillbeknownforyourhonesty.Doyoustillrembertheboywhocriedwolfforseveraltimes?
Intheendnobody.Believedhimandallhissheepwereeatenbythewolf.Allthathisliesbroughthimwasshameandunhappiness.
Honestymakesyouhappyandgainsagoodreputation.Agoodreputationisbetterthanmoneyinthebank.
TrueFriends
Friendsplayaveryimportantpartineveryone’slife.Friendshipusuallydevelopsduringchildhood.Newfriendsaremadewhenyouprogressthroughschool.Thosefrieendsthatyoumakeasastudentcanusuallylastlong.Friendsinfluenceyourdevelopmen,maturityandsenseofresponsibility.Afamiliarexpressionis“Youcantellalotaboutapersonbyknowingwhohisfriendsare”.Friendshipisbasedoncommoninterests.Ifyoulikesports,mostofoyurfriendsarelikelytobeathletic.Ifyouenjoyreadingandshopping,mostofyourfrendsdothesame.
Somepeoplecallyoutheirfriendsforthewrongreasons.Thesepeoplearenotrealfriends.Theyaresuperficial,only“friends”ontheoutside,nottheinsidewhereitcounts.Superficialfriendsonlywanttobeyourfriendsifitistotheiradvantage.Truefriendsaretherewhetheryouarerichorpoor.Itiseasytohavemanyso-called“friends”ifyouarerich.
Truefriendsaredifficulttofind.Youcanconsideryourselflickyifyouhaveonetruefriend.Thetruefriendiseagertohelpyouwhenevernecessary.Truefriendssupportyou,takeyourside,andbuildupyourconfidence.
IsHonestyAlwaystheBestPolicy?
Thereisaproverbthatgoes“Honestyisthebestpolicy.”anditseemsastrueasitwaswhenitwasfirstcoined.Themostimportantelementinhumanrelationships,whetherbusinessorpersonal,istrust.Ifyoubreakthattrustandarefoundout,therelationshipwillbedamagedordestroyed.Futhemore,ifyourdishonestyisnotdiscovered,youwillhavetogotogreatlengthstoconcealit.Abreachoftrustcanquicklygrowasyoutelllieafterlieinanefforttoconcealyouroriginaldeceit.Soonevenyoumaybeunabletodistinguishthetruth.Thisitisbettertosticktothetruth.
However,tellingliesisoftenawayofcommunicationgappropriatelywithothers.Thiskindoflyingisnotmorallywronganddoesnotaffectourintegrityasgoodhumanbeings.Forexample,thereisapoliteformulaweusewhenwemeetapersonforthefirsttime.Wesay,“Yournamehasbeenringinginmyearsforalongtime.”wheninfactwehaveneverheardofthepersonbefore.Butwithoutthesenicewords,theconversationmightnotstartwell.Whenwemeetsomeonewedon’tknow,wesay,“Nicetomeetyou!
”perhapsactuallywearenotsopleasedtomeetthem.Butthiskindofexpressionisindispensableincreatingafriendlyatmosphere.Sometimesforthesakeofpoliteness,weareobligedtotakeourfeelings.
Itispracticallyunwisetobehonestallthetimeespeciallywhenwearedealingwithdishonestpeople.Tobedishonestwiththemdoesnothurtourcredibility.Solongaswedon’thurtothers,tellingliesisanacceptablepractice.Therefore,wecansaythathonestyisnotalwaysthebestpolicy.Itdepends.
HasteMakeswaste
Manypeoplebelievethatthefasterthebetter,becausetheycansavetimeinthisway.However,asamatteroffact,thetrsultisfarlessthanbeingsatisfactoryandquiteoftengoestotheopposites.I’dliketosayhastemakeswaste.Therearetworeasonsforit.
Firstly,whenoneisinahurryhe’slikelyotbeheedlessandcareless.Hecannotjudgethesituationfullyandreactcorrectly.Thereforehecannotgetwhathereadilyaimsat.Secondly,hastemayallowaccidentstotakeplace.Inthatcase,itwillhinderonefromreachinghisdestination.
Considerthefollowingsituationwhichtellssomething.Supposeastudentisexpectedtoshowupandgivehispresentationatclasssoon.Heisinsuchahurrythathemayleavehispresentationathomeoronhiswayrushingtoschoolhemayunfortunatelyhaveanaccident.
Hastemakeswaste.Everythinghasitsrulesinit.Wecannotstrainoureffortsandignoretherules.Remember:
Takeheedandyouwillsurelyspeed.Itdoesn’tmeanwecanjustsitandwaitittohappen.Instead,weshouldtryourestandatthesametimecomplywiththeobjectiverules.
TheBestAgetoBe
Eachagehasitspleasure,anditspains.Thehappiespersonistheonewhoenjoyswhateachagegiveshimwithoutwastinghistimeinuselessregrets.
Childhoodisatimewhentherearefewresponsibilitiestomakelifedifficult.Achildfindspleasureindoingalmostanything.Butachildhashispains:
heisnotfreeashewishes,ashethinkspeopleare.
Ayoungmanbecomesfreefromthedisciplineofschoolandparents,whenhestartstoearnhishisownliving;butatthesametimeheisforcedtoacceptresponsibilities.Hehastoworkhardifhewantstolivecomfortably.Ifhebreadsthelawsofthesocietyasheusedtobreakthelawsofhisparents,hemaybeputintoprison.Ifheworkshard,hemayhaveahappinessofseeinghisownsuccess.
Oldagehasalwaysbeenthoughtofastheworstagetobe,buttheoldcanhavethejoyofseeingtheirchildrenmakingprogressinlife.Andperhapsbestofall,theycanhavethehappinessofhavingcomethroughthebattleoflifesafelyandofhavingreachedatimewhentheycanliebackandrest,seeingouthertocontinuethefight.
Success
Successislifedependstogreatextentonwhatwemeanbysuccess.Tosomepeople,moneyistheonlyrealindicationofachievementinthemodernworldandthereforetheirestimationofsuccessisbasedonthestateoftheirbankbalanceandthepowerthatgoeswithit.Theirlifeisdevotedtomakingmoneyandtheyareatalosstounderstandpeoplewhoseideasaredifferentfromtheirown.Therearepeople,however,whoconsidertheirlivessuccessfulifthey’redoingwhattheyenjoydoingthatmaynotbringthemanygreatfinancialreward.Amanwhospendshistimegardeningmaghtconsiderhimselfsuccessfuliftheflowersblossomedandhistreesgavefruit,andnursing,teaching,runningayouthcluballbringtheirownkindofsuccesstothoseengagedinthem.Successcanbefoundinpaintingapicturenobodywilleeversee.Sailingaboat,watchingthestars,collectingstamps-almostanythingthatinvolvespersonalendeavorcangiveyouasenseofsuccess.Thegreatthingistobelievethatsuccessisnotnecessarilypublic.
TheRabbitandtheFox
Oncetherewasaverynaughtyrabbit.Helikedtoplaytricks.Andthismadeotherbeastsangry.Butitwasverydifficulttocatchhim.
Onedayafoxsaidtoawolf,“Let’sthinkofawaytocatchtherabbitforoursupper.”Afterawhile,thewolfsaid,“I’vegotanidea.Yougobackhomeandgetintobed.I’llgototherabbitandtellhimthatyouaredead.Thenhe’llcomenearyoutoseeifyouaredeadornot.Youcanthenjumpupandcatchhim.”
“That’sagoodidea,”saidthefox.“I’lldothat.”Thefoxranhomeandgotintobed.Thewolfwenttotherabbit’shouse.Hestoodatthedoorandcalled.“Mr.Rabbit,Mr.Rabbit!
”
“Whatisit?
”saidtherabbit.
“Haveyouheardthefoxisdead?
”saidthewolf,thenhewentaway.
“Really?
Ihaven’theardanythingaboutit.”therabbitsaidtohimself.Sohedecidedtogoandseeifitwastrue.Hewenttothefox’shouse.Helookedinthroughthewindow,andtherehesawthefoxlyinginbed.Heopenedthedoorandwentin.helookedatthefoxandsaid,“Mr.WolfsaysMr.Foxisdead,buthedoesn’tlooklikeadeadfox.Youcanalwaystellifafoxisdead,forthedeadfoxalwaysopenshismouth.”
Whenthefoxheardthis,hethought,“I’llshowhimthatI’mdead.”Soheopenedhismouth.
Whentherabbitsawthefoxopenhismouth,heknewthatthefoxwasnotdead.Hejumpedupandranoutofthehouseasfastashecould.
Dreams
Adreamismadeupofaseriesofmind-picturesthatformduringsleep.Thepeopleandactionsinthesepicturesseemrealtothepersonwhoisdreaming.
Whenapersonisasleep,hehaslittleornocontroloverhismind.Thenideasandfeelingscomeouttoformthemindpictureknownasdreams.
Dreammaybeinfluencedbydifferentthingsthatarepresentduringsleep.Ifapersoniscold,hemaydreamthatheisoutinasnowstorm.Worriesorangermayalsoinfluencethecontentofadream.
Somepeoplethinkthattheyseldomdream,andotherpeoplearequitesurethattheydonotdreamatall.Studiesofhumansleephaveshown,though,thateveryonedreamseverynight.Ifapersonthinkshedoesnotdream,itisbecausehedoesnotrememberdreamingwhenhewakesup.Usually,apersonmaydreamthreetoseventimesforatotalofonetotwohoursofdreamingeverynight.
Notonlydoeseveryonedream,butitseemsthatweallneedtodream.Onetheoryisdeaminggivesusachancetoescapefromtherulesofourr