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1.Mistakesaretheseedsofevolutionandchange.Itissaidthatthejourneyof1,000milesbeginswithasinglestep.Andit’swithinthissinglestepthatlessonsarelearned,directionsaregiven,andmistakeshavealreadybeenmadeathousandtimesover.Itisinfactthissinglestepthatprovidesuswithanopportunitytolearnfromallthosewhocamebeforeusandtolaydowntheseedsofpersonalevolutionandchange.Learningfromanother’sexperiencecouldbethemostimportantfactortowardsachievinganykindofsuccessinlife.[details]（byAdamSicinski）

2.Becarefulwhencomparingyourselftoothers.Youknoweverythingaboutyourself:

yourstrengths,yourweaknesses,yoursuccesses,andyourfailures.Allyouknowaboutothersiswhatthey’vechosentoshow,andthatwouldusuallybeonlytheirsuccess.Listeverythinggoodaboutyourselfandsay,“Hey,Ihaveagoodpersonalré

sumé

.LookatallIhaveachievedandwhatIcanlearnandachieve.”Youcanthengooutfeelinggoodandpreparedforwhateverchallengetheworldpresentsforyou.（byColleenDick）

3.Iamgratefulfor…Toensurethatyoudonottakethingsforgranted,beginaGratitudeJournal.Eachdaywriteonablankpieceofpaper‘Iamgratefulfor…’thenwritedownasmanythingsthatyouaregratefulfor.Believeme,youwillrealizehowluckyyoureallyare.Dateeachsheet,andwhenyouaren’tfeelingallthatcrashhot,lookbackoverwhatyouhavewrittenanditwillcertainlyboostyourspirits!

（byVikiSlough）

4.Persistuntilitpaysoff.Mostpeoplegiveuprightbeforetheyareabouttosucceed.Never,never,nevergiveup!

（byJeremyDay）

5.Eatchocolate.Ifyou’reinabadmood,orwanttobecomemorepositive,havesomechocolate!

WhenIamunhappy,angry,orfeelingnegative,Ioftenhaveafewpiecesofchocolate.Ithelpstocalmmedownandseemstohaveagreateffectonmymood.FairTradechocolatecanhaveanamazingeffect,becauseyouknowthatyouarehelpingtomakeadifference.（byAndreLivingstone）

6.Haveapersonalhero.MineisthelateNobelprize-winningphysicistRichardFeynman.AnytimeIamtryingtosolveadifficultproblem,IinvokethepragmaticspiritofFeynmantoguidemeinthewaysofrationalityandthescientificmethod.Whenwritingtechnicalprose,Ieschewjargoninfavorofclearandpreciselanguagetocommunicatetheideastomypeers.Whensomeoneispresentingideasortheoriestome,IthinkofFeynmantohonemypowersofcriticalthinkingandmyBSdetector.（byMikeYoke）

7.Practicemeditationregularly.Learnaprovenandeffectivemethodofmeditation,setamanageableroutine,andkeeptoit.Theobjectivityandclarityofmindproducedwillhelpinallaspectsofyourlife,fromthemundanetotheelevated.[details]（byReddyKilowatt）

8.Usemindmapstoquicklyreviewbooksyou’veread.AsI’mreadingabook,IpopulateamindmapthatIhavestartedforthatbook.Ijumpbetweenthebookandthemindmapaftercompletingamajorsectionorsometimesawholechapter.Thismethodhasincreasedmycomprehensionofthetopicscoveredinbooks1000-fold.What’smore,Icanlookatamindmapofabookandwithinminutesrecallimportantlessonslearnedinthebook.IalsousethemindmaptopointmetothosepartsofthebookwhereIwanttoquicklyreviewaspecifictopic.（byLlewellyn）

9.Serve.Mypersonalexcellencetipisjustthat–serve.IfinallthatIdo,Idoinaspiritofbeingofservicetotheother,Iwinallthetime.Thishasbeenmyexperienceandthereasonformyverysuccessfullifeasaprofessionalmanager.（byrummuser）

10.Breakthecycleofself-inflictedjunkmail.Stopdeleting,“markingasread”orarchivingnewsletters,forwards,andRSSfeedsyoudon’tread.Processingtheseitemswastesvaluabletimeeveryday.Instead,archivethemina“Self-InflictedJunk”folder.Onceamonth,reviewwhatisinthatfolder,andunsubscribe.UseserviceslikeStopForwarding.ustostemthetideofjunkfromyourfriendsaswell.[details]（bySidSavara）

11.Practicebeingselfish.Standfirmbehindtheairplane/oxygenmetaphorandputyourownoxygenmaskonbeforehelpingothers.Tobeabletohelpothersyouhavetotakecareofyourownneeds.WhenIdon’ttakecareofmyself,Ican’ttakecareofotherpeople.SoIfindtimetorelaxandrefuelonadailybasis（alonetime）,weeklybasis（mom’snightout）,monthlybasis（girl’snightout）,andyearlybasis（vacation）.[details]（byStaceyHofferWeckstein）

12.Yourgoals:

keepyoureyeson‘em.Knowwhatyourgoalsareintheimportantareasofyourlifesuchasfamilyandfriends,work,spirituality,etc.Thenusethisknowledgetobesurethatyourhours,days,weeks,andmonthsareworkingtowardsthesegoals.Theminutesofyourlifesupportyourmajorpurposesinlife.Thistipisalsopractical:

itpreventsyoufromtakingontoomuch（ifsomethingisnotworkingtowardsagoal,don’tdoit!

）,aswellaskeepsyouinbalance（youneedtolookatgoalsindifferentareasofyourlife）.（byHowtoCopewithPain）

13.Discomfortisaprerequisiteforsuccess.Tryingtostayinyourcomfortzoneandlettingfeargetthebestofyouwillalwayschokeyourcreativityandsabotageanychancesyoumighthaveofsucceeding.Inordertoachieveanyworthygoals,youmuststartrealizingthatdiscomfortisaprerequisiteforsuccess.[details]（byAndrewBolis）

14.Learnonesentenceinaforeignlanguage.Whenevermytrainingandexperienceseemirrelevant,wheneverIneedtotrysomethingnew,butIcan’tthinkofafreshsolution,Ijuststopthetaskandlearnasentenceinaforeignlanguage.The“moreforeign”,thebetter.Mytheoryisthatitopensanewpathwayintothebrain.IdiscoveredthistipwhenIwasinvitedtositinonaHindiclasswhileIhadwriter’sblock.Duringtheclass,Iactuallyfeltphysicalmovement,atinglingbehindmyrighteye.Iwenthomeandfinishedthewritingassignmentthathadbeenplaguingmeinrecordtime.[details]（byKate）

15.UseGoogleReadertokeeptrackofwebsites.UsingGoogleReader（orasimilarservice）canhelpyousavehoursoftimebyhavingallyourRSSfeedsandupdatesinoneplace.Youdon’thavetoconstantlykeepcheckingwebsites–theycometoyouinoneeasyplace,whereyoucanstoreordeleteitems.IcheckmyGoogleReaderonceinthemorningandonceintheevening.Ithassavedmehoursoftimeandmadememoreefficient!

[details]（byGlenLoveland）

16.Putyourselfinotherpeople’sshoes.Whenyouareangryorhavingabaddayitiseasytomakeameancommentortellsomeoneoff.Beforesayingordoingwhat’sinyourmindtakeamomenttoputyourselfintheotherperson’sshoes.Howwouldyoufeelonthereceivingendofthatcommentyou’reabouttomakeorthatactionyou’reabouttotake?

ShowingalittlecompassionoftenpreventsmefromsayingthingsI’dotherwiseregretorhelpsmedecidewhattodo（ornotdo）.Ifyoutreatpeoplelikeyouwanttobetreated,you’llbeabletoavoiduselessargumentsandbesurprisedwithallthefriendlypeoplearoundyou.（byAnke）

17.Showup.Peoplesaytheywanttoachievethings,butthendon’tshowupforthethingsthatwouldhelpthemgetthere.Theywanttobewriters,butdon’tshowupatthewordprocessor.Theywanttoownabusiness,buttheydon’tshowupfortheeducationalseminar.Theywanttobeactors,butthendon’tshowupfortheaudition.[details]（byLymanReed）

18.Take100%responsibilityforeverythingthathappenstoyou.Evenifitseemslikeanaccident,youare100%responsibleforeverythingthathappenstoyou.Igotinacaraccidentthatwasn’tmyfaultaccordingtothelaw.HowdoItakeresponsibilityforthat?

Ihadforgottensomethingathomeandwenttogetitonmywaytoameeting.IfIhadabettersystemforrememberingitems,thenIwouldn’thavebeenintheaccident.Ifyouarenotgettingwhatyouwant,itisbecauseyouarenottakingresponsibilitytoeducateyourselforworkinghardtoachieveit.Willyoube100%responsibleorwillyoutaketheeasywayoutandsettleforlessthenyouareworth?

（byChrisElliott）

19.Makepersonalexcellence…personal.Bringapartofyourselfintoeverythingyoudo.Themoreyourworkreflectsyourindividuality,themoreitwillstandoutfromthecrowd,themorepeoplewillrelatetoit（andyou）andthemore“real”yourachievementswillseemtobe.Andwhenyoureffortsinvolveotherpeople,involvethemonapersonallevelaswell,sothattheprojectbecomesarelationshipthatbringsoutthebestineveryoneinvolved.[details]（byToriDeaux）

20.Spider-map.Aspider-mapisaschemewhereyouplacethemainconceptinthecenterandthen,aroundit,writeideasgeneratedfromthecentraltheme.Youwillenduphavingaweboflinkedkeywords,greatforthosewhorelyontheirvisualmemorymoreoften,likeIdo.[details]（byLuciaGrosaru）

21.Health,theneglectedpoint.Therewillbetonsofpeoplewritingabouthowtobemoreproductiveorhowtoexcelintimemanagement,etc.Yetthefirstthingwemustrememberwhenwearetalkingaboutpersonaldevelopmentistakingcareofourhealth.Youcanhaveallthefancytechniquestogetmoredone,butneglectingyourhealthdoesnothelptoincreaseproductivityinthelongterm.Exerciseregularlyandmaketheconsciousefforttoeathealthierfood.[details]（byVincent）“

22.Detachfromtheoutcome.ProbablybestillustratedbytheSerenityPrayer:

“GodgrantmetheserenitytoacceptthethingsIcannotchange;

thecouragetochange