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进阶口语
英语沟通的思路：
轻松的开场热身具体的话题交流适当和简洁的句式表达彼此的思想在沟通中迸发出思想撞击的火花交谈不断深入，升华.
Themakingofasuccessfulconversation:
●Relaxingice-breaker
●Concretetopic
●Properandsimpleexpressions
●Clashofthoughts
沟通英语核心语句：
●寒暄开场：
与陌生人搭话很简单，通常有三种话题可以选择：
“环境”“对方”和“自己”，而且启动谈话的方式也只有三种：
“提出问题”“发表看法”“陈述事实”
谈事物
It’sabeautifuldaytoday,huh?
It’sagreatparty!
Whatalovelyhouseitis!
找共同点
So,whatbringsyouhere?
HowdoyouknowTOM?
夸对方
Oh,youlookgreat/sharptoday!
Wow,thedresslooksterrificonyou!
（Wheredidyougetit）
●有效提问：
只有那些能引起积极回应的问题才有助于沟通持续进行，所以要充分使用开放式问题，就是指那些不能用YES/NO来直接回答的问题。
问对方
So,whatdoyoudoforaliving？
Whereareyoufromoriginally？
是什么
What……？
What’syourimpressionof……？
I’dlikeyouropinionon……
怎么样
Howdoyoulike……?
/Whatdoyouthinkof……？
How’s……？
●主动陈述：
做一名主动的沟通贡献者十分重要，不要胆怯表达自己的思想，要知道，只有开放的心才能带来高效的沟通。
谈自己
Hello,mynameis……（尽量提供更多的信息额。
e.g.:
Hi,mynameisJohn.I'mafriendofTom'sfromhighschool.Weusedtohavethesamemathclasstogether）
Iamfrom……
I’mworkingon……
我听说
Iheardthat……
It’ssaidthat……
It’sreportedthat……
依我看
Inmyopinion……
Inmyview……
Personally,I……
●积极倾听：
认真倾听，积极回应是非常重要的成功沟通原则，适时反馈既鼓励对方继续说下去。
也保证彼此能理解对方的内容。
还有，称赞应该是真诚的，而否定则只对事不对人。
认同
Youareright!
Goodpoint!
Ithinkso!
/Ifeelthesameway.
赞许
Wonderful!
/Great!
/Amazing!
Whatabrilliantidea!
Thatsoundsfun!
不赞成
Idon’tagreewith……
Idon’tthinkthat……
I’m（dead）against……
●深入交谈：
用心去发现，谈话的对方在不断地透露出新的发散信息点，抓住它，就能进一步打开话题。
复述对方观点
Youjustsaidthat……
Youmean……
抓住一点，层层询问
Youjustmentionedthat……
●化解困境：
与人交流难免会有尴尬的时候，比如你不知该如何回答，或是在谈话的过程中发现自己搞错了，或者是发现有点无话可说。
暂不答复
I’llthinkaboutit.
Well,thinkofitthisway
Can’tsay,really
承认不足
I’mwrong
I’mnotanexpert.
换个话题
Alright,let’schangethechannel!
●结束谈话：
结束谈话也需要技巧，在告别之前先说一些暗示对方不能继续聊下去的话。
暗示结束
Oh,it’sgettinglate.
Yeah,Ihaveanotherappointment.
I’vegottorun.
I’dbebetteronmyway.
表达心情
Nicetalkingtoyou.
Goodtohavemetyou.
Keepintouch.
Takeiteasy!
再见告别
Seeyoulater.
Solong!
Bye!
与老外搭话的技巧
这个技巧的原理其实很简单，那就是我们不断地向外国人提问，然后从外国人的答复中寻找两人的共同点，一旦找到两人的共同点，即可进行深入的交谈。
比如下面这段对话，背景是两个不认识的人（Tom和Joe）在一个社交聚会上见面。
Tom问：
您做什么工作啊？
Joe答：
我是卖保险的。
由于每个人都可能买保险，这很可能是一个突破口，于是Tom紧接着问：
您卖哪种保险啊？
Joe答：
我卖亚得里亚海油井的保险。
这个险种实在太冷门了，但Tom并不气馁，继续提问，最后终于找到两人的共同点：
原来两人的籍贯都是内布拉斯加州，于是Tom从这个突破口切入，与Joe开始了深入的交谈。
Tom：
Hi,I'mTom.Whatisyourname?
（提问）
Joe：
I'mJoe.（寻找共同点）
Tom：
Well,Joe,whatdoyoudoforaliving?
（提问）
Joe：
Isellinsurance.（寻找共同点）
Tom：
Ohyeah?
Whatkindofinsurance?
（提问）
Joe：
IinsureoilrigsintheAdriaticSea.（寻找共同点）
Tom：
Wow.That'smustbefascinating.Marriedorkids,Joe?
（提问）
Joe：
No,actually,I'msingle.（寻找共同点）
Tom：
So,whodoyouknowhereattheparty?
（提问）
Joe：
Sorry,nobody.（寻找共同点）
Tom：
Sowhereareyoufrom?
（提问）
Joe：
Nebraska.（终于找到共同点！
）
Tom：
Really?
MydadwasfromNebraska.EventhoughhediedwhenIwasfour,mygrandmotherusedtotakemebacktovisitmyrelativeseverysummergrowingup.Wereyoucityfolk,ordidyouliveonafarm?
Joe：
Igrewuponapigfarm.
（后面的对话省略）
这段对话中并没有什么生僻的单词，基本上都是大白话，由此我们可以看出，与外国人搭话，并不需要掌握很多的词汇，或者掌握很复杂的语法，只要方法得当，双方交谈起来并不是很困难的。
希望这个搭话技巧能对您有所帮助。
TOPIC1:
PRIVATECAR
●Topicintroducing
Thisyearforthefirsttime,privatecarpurchaseshaveaccountedformorethanahalfoftheChinesecarmarket.Theproportionofprivatecarpurchaseshasbeenincreasingsince2002.TheStateInformationCenterpredictstheannualdemandgrowthrateofChinesecarmarketwillrangefrom10%to15%inthenext5years.In2010,thedemandwillreachbetween8.8to12million.
Recently,China’sNationalReformandDevelopmentCommissionreleasedanenergy-savingguideforthemediumandlongterm.Amonganarrayofpolicyproposals,onesaysbigcitiesshouldlimitprivatecars.Accordingtothedocument,buyingprivatecarsshouldbeexplicitlydiscouraged,becausetheyexploittoomuchtransportationresources.
●Icebreaking
A:
Excuseme,wouldyoupleasetellmeifthisbusgoestothetrainstation?
B:
Yeah.Ihavewaitedforalongtime.
A:
Oh,ittakestoomuchtime.It’sbettertohavemyowncar!
B:
Butnowthetrafficjamsaresoheavy.Youwillstillbelate.
A:
Andgasolineismoreandmoreexpensive.
B:
That’sit!
●Chattingmode
A:
Infact,Idon’tusemyowncarfrequently.It’snotthatconvenient.
B:
Howcome?
Didn’tyoubuyyourselfacarforconvenience?
A:
Ithoughtjustlikeyoufirst.OnceIboughtthecar,Ifoundmyselfinbigtrouble.
B:
Yeah,weoftenmeettrafficjams.
A:
Andgasolineismoreandmoreexpensive.
B:
Moreover,it’sdifficulttofindaparkinglot.
A:
AndIthinkprivatecarsarethemajorcauseofpollution.
B:
Justlikeyousaid,that’swhymoreandmorecountriesareencouragingtheircitizenstousepublictransportationandbicyclesinsteadofprivatecars.
●viewpoints
GroupA
@What’smore,alargernumberofprivatecarscreatemoreserioustrafficjams.
@Trafficjamshavenegativeinfluencesonpeople’slife.
@Well,toomanyprivatecarsrunninginthestreetsleadtoairandnoisepollution.
@Inmyview,ifpeopleuseprivatecarsaslessfrequentlyaspossible,airpollutionwillbereduced.
@Sure,suchagreatwasteofnaturalresourcesisleadingtoanenergycrisis.
@Ithinkthegovernmentshouldbanprivatecarsandpromotepublictransport.
@Itisnecessaryandreasonabletoresistprivatecaruse,becauseweareinasocietyofenergyshortage.
@Iheardthatthegovernmentwillinstructprivatecarownerstousetheirvehiclesmoreeconomically.
@Inmyopinion,increasingparkingfeesandlevyinghighertaxesoncarownerssoundsreasonable.
@TheBeijinggovernmenthaswarnedthattheywillcontrolthenumberofprivatecarsandthecostofmaintenancewillsteadilyincreased.
GroupB
@Thepopularityofprivatecarsischangingthepeople’slifestyle.
@Theautomobileindustryplaysanimportantroleinournationaleconomy
@So,banningprivatecarswouldharmtheeconomy.
@Itisunreasonableforthegovernmenttohandlethetransportationshortagebydiscouragingprivatecarownership.
@ThekeyfactorofBeijing’strafficjamsistheunderdevelopmentoftrafficsystem.
@INmyopinion,privatecarsinBeijinghavenotreachedsaturationpoint,sothemajortaskistoimproveroadlayout.
@However,Ithinkitwouldbebettertoreducethenumberofofficialcarsthantocheckthedevelopmentofprivatecars.
@Ithinkthegovernmentshouldallowprivatecarstocarrypassengersforafee,btheway.
TOPIC2CELEBRITIE’SPRIVACE
●Topicintroducing
Thetortofbreachofprivacyisstillavexedissue,butcelebritiescansometimesprotectthemselvesfromactswhichmightcolloquiallybedescribedas“invasionsofprivacy”bysuingforbreachofconfidence.
IntherecentUKcaseofCambellandMirrorGroupNewspapers,supermodelNaomiCambellwassuccessfulinherclaimfordamagesforbreachofconfidentialityinrespectofarticlespublishedinthenotoriousEnglishMirror.ThearticlesrevealedcontrarytoCambell’spreviousassertions,thatshewasadrugaddictandwasattendingmeetingsofNarcoticsAnonymoustobeatheraddiction.
TheJudgefoundthatthedetailsofherregularattendanceatNarcoticsAnonymousmeetingsfortherapywasinformationhavingthenecessaryqualityofconfidenceandthatitmusthavebeenimpartedincircumstancesimportinganobligationofconfidence.Heconcludedthatthepublicationoftheinformationwaslikelytoadverselyaffectherattendanceandparticipationintherapymeetingandwasthereforetoherdetriment.Shewasawarded3500pound.
●IceBreaking
A:
Goodafternoon!
B:
Goodafternoon!
I’mverypleasedtomeetyou.
A:
Hey.Havewemetsomewherebefore?
YoulookjustlikefamoussingerFayeWong.
B:
Really?
Well,I’mnot—butI’mveryhappytohearyousayso.
A:
HaveyouheardthatFayeWongwaschosenastheQueenofChinesePop?
B:
Pleasetellmemore!
I’moneofherfans!
●ChattingMode
A:
Ibelievecelebritiesarecommonpeoplelikeusandwannahaveanormallife.
B:
Youareright!
Buteverybodyhashiscuriosity.Sometimeswewannaknowmoreaboutthemjustbecauseweadmirethem.
A:
Ithinkthemediaplayanimportantrolehere.Theydowhattheycantomeetthetasteifaudiencesorreaders.
B:
Icouldn’tagreewithyoumore.Sometimestheyevenfabricatethenewstograbattention.
A:
That’stotallyirresponsible.Wereadersshouldmakeourownjudgmentandgivethecelebritiesmoreprivacy.
●ViewPoints
GroupA
@Thesoleaimofthemediaistograbpublicattentiontomakemoreprofits.
@.Celebritiesarealsohuman.Theyarealsoentitledtohumanrightstoprotecttheirprivacy.
@Someofthemevenfabricateaffairstodrawpublicattentiontothemselvesandincreasetheirpopularity.
@Somecoverageisnottruebutsensational.Asanoldsayinggoes,“Gossipisafearfulthing.”
@Weshouldn’tdeprivethemofsuchabasicright.
@Well,someirresponsiblereportsmayruinthecareerandeventhelifeofafamousperson.
GroupB
@Ithinkfamouspeoplearenolongerprivateindividualsbutpublicfigures.
@Celebritiesarealwaysnews.Theyarenolonercelebritieswithoutnewsaboutthem.
@Theirbehavior,characterandintegrityhavetocomeunderintenseattention.
@Thatitis,bitcuriosityisfundamentaltohumannature
TOPIC3LIUXIANG
●TopicIntroducing
TheworldhadbettergetusedtoMr.Liuandhisname（XiangispronouncedShee-ahng）.Withhischiseledjawandwinningsmile,LiuhasalreadybeentappedasapitchmanforCoca-ColaandNike.Moreimportantly,theChinesehurdlerservesasthecharismaticiconofacontinentgalvanizedbyanunprecedentedathleticascendancy,justasAsiaistowelcomethenextSummerOlympicstoi
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