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研究生综合英语1修订版课文原文
研究生综合英语1修订版课文原文
UnitlAnImageoraMirage?
Thereisadistinctdifferencebetweenawinningimageandamirage.Amirageisanillusion,andinyourQuestforawinningimage,youmustbecapableofidentifyingsuchmirages.
Oneofthecommonmisreadimagesstemsfromwhatpeoplethinkabouteyecontact.Howmanytimeshaveyouheard,“Youcantellhe'sanhonestmanbecausehelooksyoustraightintheeye.''Evidently,manypeoplemustbelievethatadishonestmanfeelssoashamedthathe'snottellingthetruththathecan'tevenfacethemdirectly.Butwhataboutanhonestindividualwhoistooshytolookstraightatyou?
Furthermore,agoodcanartistknowsthatmanypeoplejudgeintegritybythewayonelooksatthem,sohedeliberatelyincludeseyecontactinhisact.Becauseyoucan'tcountoneyecontactasaninfallibletest,youshouldneveruseittoevaluateanotherperson"shonesty.Nonetheless,sincemostpeopledojudgeothersbythiscriterion,besurethatyoualwayslookthemsquarelyintheeye.
Evaluatingaman'shonestybythewayhelooksatyoumakesnomoresensethanjudginghisintegritybythewayyourdogorcatreactstohim.Yethowmanytimeshaveyouheardadog'smastersay,"That'sinteresting—Thordoesn'ttaketostrangersveryoften.He'sagoodjudgeofhumannature,andthefactthathe'sfriendlywithyoutellsmesomegoodthingsaboutyou."OncewhenIwasinthehomeofamprospect,hiscat,Tiger,tooksuchalikingtomethathesatonmyshoulderduringmyentiresalespresentation.WhenIwasfinished,myprospect,swifesaid,"Mr.Shook,Tigeronlydoesthatwithmembersofourimmediatefamily.Youmustbeaveryhonestpersonforhertobesofriendlytoyou.”
ThetruthofthematterwasthatIrefrainedfrompushingthecatoffbecauseIwasafraidshe'dripmysuitorscratchmyeyesout.However,Ireplied,“Yes,ma'am,Tigerobviouslyhassomekindofinstinctthatenableshertoaccuratelyjudgehumans.Shesureisagoodjudgeofcharacter."EventhoughTigerhappenedtoberightinmycase,I
personallyputverylittlefaithinananimal'sinstinctualabilitytojudgepeople.I'dsayhisreactionshavemoretodowithodorsandbodymovement.
Somepeoplejudgeanotherpersonbythewayheorsheshakeshands.Agood,stronggriprepresentscharacter,whilea“deadfish”handshake!
isabadsign.1,too,disliketheflabbyhandshakewithnolifetoit,butIamcarefulnotmtouseitasabasisforjudginganindividual.Again,it's
tooeasyforaconartisttoputaheartyhandshakeintohisact.Thoughyoushouldgiveafirmhandshakesoyou'11immediatelycreateagood
impression,don'tplacetoomuchweightonthenextfellow*sgrip;
itdoesn'ttellyouanythingconcreteabouthim.
There*scertainclean-cutappearancethatcreatesanhonestimage.Forexample,ablond,blue-eyedyoungmanwithaboyishgrinandalookthattypifiestheboy-next-door,All-Americantype'willalmostalwaysinspireconfidenceinmothers.Thereisnologicalreasonforplacingsuchblindfaithinamansimplybecauseofthewayhelooks,yetmostpeopledomakesuchquickjudgments.Conversely,theseedymanwithdarkoilyskin,greasyblackhair,andamoustacheisnotconsideredhonest-looking.Similarly,awomanmayhavethemlookswhichareusuallyassociatedwiththoseofastreetwalker,whereasahigh-pricedcallgirlmaylookrefinedandrefreshing.Naturally,clothesand—inthecaseofwomen—
cosmetics,haveagreatdealtodowithsuchaforementionedappearances,butunfortunatelyaperson*smnaturallooks,overwhichheorshehaslittlecontrol,playanimportantpartinthejudgmentsmostpeoplewillmake.Ipitythehard-working,honestsalesmanwhowasbornwiththelooksthatmakepeopleautomaticallythink,"He'snotthekindofmanI'dwanttobuyausedcarfrom!
nOntheotherhand,averydeviousindividualmaylooklikethetypeyoucantrust.Howcanyoubesurethatthehitchhikerwholookssoclean-cutisanylessdangerousthantheonewho,becauseofhisappearance,lookslikearisk?
Andhowcanyoubesurethatthisonereallyisarisk?
Thepointisthatwearemostoftenbeingcompletelyunreasonableinmakingsuchsnapdecisions.
Onalargerscale,votersoftenreactfavorablytoapoliticiansimplybecauseofhisclean-cutappearance.Hisopponentisoftenjudgednegativelybecausehehasnotbeenblessedwithnaturallooksthatgeneratetrust.Thiskindofjudgmentiserroneous,andtheconsequencescanproducedevastatingresults.Granted,manypeoplevoteforacandidatestrictlybecauseofpoliticalissues,buttheclean-cutimagecantipthescalesinfavorofthewrongmaninacloseelection.
Wemakesnapjudgmentsaboutpeopleonthebasisofhowtheyexpressthemselves.Toreverttopolitics,manyvotersjudgeacandidatetsabilitybythewayhemakesapublicspeech.Butthoughacandidatemaybeaneffectivespeaker,hemaynotbecapableofdoingthejobforwhichheisrunning.Iknowmanyhighlytalentedmenwhosimplyhavenotdevelopedanabilitytospeakwellinpublic,butwhoareexcellentincommunicatingwithothersonaone-to-onebasis.Theabilitytoexpressyourselfstronglyisalwaysimportant,butwearetoooftenwronglyimpressedbythemanwhocomesacrossaseloquent,sinceitisalwayspossiblethatthisvirtueisonlyaskin-deep.”Yetitiseasytoimagine
apoliticianwithaclean-cutlookandamagneticspeakingvoicerompingalloverhisunassumingbutbetterqualifiedopponent.Hewinssolelybecausehisimageisconvincing.
Aftermanyyearsofinterviewingandhiringsalesmen,Ihavereachedtheconclusionthatthemanwiththeglibtonguedoesn'tnecessarilybecomethetopproducer.Thoughthereisadefiniteadvantageinhavingaunaturalnsellingpersonality,moreoftenthannotthesalesmanwithgoodworkinghabits,propermotivation,andcommitmentistheonewhobecomesthebestinhiscompany.Toooften,thesalesmanagerwhohiressalesmensimplybecauseoftheirextrovertedandflamboyantpersonalitieswillhaveahighturnover.
Anotherinfluencingfactoristheeffectproducedonthelistenerbythesoundofaname.Atsometimeoranother,we'veallbeenguiltyofhastilyforminganunwarrantedopinionwhenweheara“winningnamen
asopposedtoa,losing"one.Hollywoodrecognizedthisfactlongagowhenthestudiosbeganchangingthestars'realnames.OneofmyfavoritemovielinesisJamesBond"sresponsetoPussyGalore*,theheroineinthemovieGoldfinger.Meetingherforthefirsttime,hecanonlyexclaim,“Imustbedreaming!
nHadhernamebeenHarriettFinkelstein,theaudiencewouldneverhavebeenabletoappreciateoneofthescreen*sall-timegreatnames!
Yet,nomatterhowgreatanameis,usingitasacriterioninevaluatingcharacterisjustasillogicalasdeterminingaperson*svaluebyahandshake.
Thebeautiful,sexyredheadisn'talwaysthebestbedpartner,noristhebig,strongman,whomweusuallyexpecttobethehero,alwaysbraverthanthesmall,frailmanonthebattlefield.Likewise,thereisnosoundreasonforbelievingthattheout-of-townattorneyorconsultantisanymoreofanexpertthanthelocalman.Justbecauseyourdentisthastobookyousixmonthsinadvancedoesnotautomaticallymeanthathedoesthebestroot-canalwork.NorwilltheinsuranceagentwhodrivesaMercedes*necessarilygiveyoubetterservicethantheagentwhodrivesaFordsedan.Havingtogothroughamainswitchboard,areceptionist,andaprivatesecretarybeforeyougettospeakwithyourattorneyisnoindicationofhislegalabilities.Ialsohopeyoudon'twithdrawallyoursavingsfromFourthBankanddepositthemwithThirdBankjustbecausetheirnewhomeofficebuildingisseveralstoriestaller.Itisequallyunreasonabletoassumethatahospital-cleanrestaurantservesthebestfood.True,allthesefactorsarenicewindowdressing,andtheyshouldn"tbecompletelyignored,butothermoreimportantfactorsmustbeconsideredbeforeyoumakeanyfinaldecisionsaboutthosewithwhomyou"11dobusiness.
Manyimagesareonlymiragesthatwehavebeenconditionedtoacceptastherealthing.Sodon'tbefooledthenexttimesomebodytellsyouthatTrumanBlueisagreatguybecauseofhiswonderfulsmile,thewayhelookspeoplestraightintheeyewhenhetalkstothem,hisfirmhandshake,andhisremarkablerapportwithpets!
PhrasesandExpressions
inquestfor:
tryingtofind;seeking
whatabout:
whatdoyouthinkabout(sth.)
stemfrom:
arisefrom;haveasitsoriginorcausetaketo:
starttolike
counton:
relyonwithconfidence
takealikingto:
befondof
havetodowithsb.(sth.):
beconnectedwithorrelatedtosb.
(sth.)tipthescales:
giveaslightadvantagetosb.orsth.beblessedwithsb.(sth.):
befortunateinhavingsb.(sth.)revertto:
talkaboutagain;gobackto(aformersubjectofconversation)
comeacross:
makeanimpressionofthespecifiedtypemoreoftenthannot:
veryfrequently
asopposedto:
incontrastto
Unit2IsLoveanArt?
Isloveanart?
Thenitrequiresknowledgeandeffort.Orisloveapleasantsensation,whichtoexperienceisamatterofchance,somethingoneufallsinto”ifoneislucky?
Thislittlebookisbasedontheformerpremise,whileundoubtedlythemajorityofpeopletodaybelieveinthelatter.
Notthatpeoplethinkthatloveisnotimportant.Theyarestarvedforit;theywatchendlessnumbersoffilmsabouthappyandunhappylovestories,theylistentohundredsoftrashysongsaboutlove—yethardly
anyonethinksthatthereisanythingthatneedstobelearnedaboutlove.
Thispeculiarattitudeisbasedonseveralpremiseswhicheithersinglyorcombinedtendtoupholdit.Mostpeopleseethepr