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inhergazeandinhersighs.
Itisamother'
slove.
Youcanfeelitinhertouch—
inhertenderhugsandsuch.
Youcanhearitinherwords—
inherpraisesandbywords.
Shecares.Sheunderstands.
Shelendsanearandholdsourhands.
Shegivesusamother'
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Formorethanfourdecades,JohnAdamshasfoughttodefendtheenvironmentandempoweredindividualsintheU.S.andaroundtheworldtojointhecause.Adamsiscofounder0ftheNaturalResourcesDefenseCounciltheNRDCthenation'
sfirstlawfirmfortheenvironment."
Defendingtheenvironment,”JohnAdamssays,"
ispersonal”
"
Whenyoucareaboutsomething,liketheenvironment,itdoesbecomeapassion”hesays."
Itbecomesyourlife.Igrewuponasmall-townfarmintheCatskillMountainsofNewYork.Itwasawonderfulplacetogrowup.Ilovedit"
Butbythel960s,hedidn'
tlovewhathesawhappeningtotheenvironment.
Wewereamajorindustrialforcewithnopollutioncontrols.SoifyouwereinPittsburghorNewYorkorthefactoryareasofNewJerseyorCalifornia,youwouldbehitwithairpollutionthathadvirtuallynopollutioncontrols,"
saysAdams"
InNewYorkweburnedalotofourgarbagerightinthebuildings.Flyashwouldcomeupanditwasoverthecity,TheHudsonRiverwasfilledwithrawsewageanditsmelledbecausetherewerenorequirementforsewagecontrol."
Healsoworriedaboutthedisappearingfarmlandaroundthebigcitieswhichbecamesuburbansprawlwithverylittleplanning.
Adamsturnedhislovefornatureintoaction,leavinghisjobwiththeU.S.Attorney’sOfficeinNewYorkinl970tohelpestablishtheNatureResourcesDefenseCouncil.The33-year-oldlawyerbecameitsfirstdirector.
Intheirbook,AForceForNatureJohnAdamsandhis
lifePatriciaalsoanenvironmentalactivistchronicletheevolutionoftheNRDCfromahomegrownadvocacygrouptoa1.3一million一memberorganizationwithintematlonreach.
AdarmsledtheNRDCfor36yearsandremainsonitsBoardofTrustees.Today,heischairmanofthe0penSpaceInstitute,workingtopurchasescenicandnaturallandinNewEnglandtoprotectitfromdevelopment.
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Igrewupinafamilywithsixsisters.InmylifetimeIhaveseenallofthemabusedbyvariousmenintheirlives.Evenmymotherhasthescarsfromtwounsuccessfulmarriages.
WhenIwasateenager,mymothersharedsomeinsightsintoalloftheirfailedrelationships.Sheexplainedthattheyreallyweren'
texpectingtobetreatedasqueens,buttheydiddesiretwothingsfromthemenintheirlives:
tobetoldfrequentlythattheyarelovedandtobeshownoftenthattheyarespecial.ItwasatthatpointthatIdecidedIwouldbethesortofhusbandmymomandsistershaddreamedofbutneverhad.
WhenIwasdatingmywife-to-beIrememberedthosetwopointsmymothersharedwithmeyearsearlier.IadmitthatIstruggledtryingtobeabletoexpressmyloveinwordsandinaction.Formostmen,itisn'
tnaturalforustoberomantics.Butthenagain,itisn'
tnaturalforustobemillionairesorsportssuperstars.Itdoestakeeffort,practiceanddiligence.Buttherewardsarethere.
Nowwe'
vebeenmarriedfornineyears.Ireally,truly,deeplylovemywifeandletherknowiteverydaybywhatIsayandwhatIdo.Ourfriendsandfamilymembersalladmireusandwanttoknowoursecret.
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InpastgenerationsthechallengeOodatingwasdifferentMenandwomenwantedapartnerwhocouldfulfilltheirbasicneedsforsecurityandsurvival.Womenlookedforastrongmanwhowouldbeagoodbreadwinner;
mensearchedforanurturingwomantomakeahome.Thispracticethatworkedforthousandsofyearshassuddenlychanged.
Thenewchallengeofdatingistofindapartnerwhonotonlywillbesupportiveofourphysicalneedsforsecurityandsurvivalbutwillsupportouremotionalandspiritualneeds.Todaywewantmorefromourrelationships.Millionsofmenandwomenaroundtheworldaresearchingforasoulmatetoexperiencelastinglovehappinessandromance.
Itisnolongerenoughtojustfindsomeonewhoiswillingtomarryus.Wewantpartnerswhowillloveusmoreastheygettoknowus:
Wewanttolivehappilyeverafter.Tofindandrecognizepartnerswhocanfullfillournewneedsforincreasedcloseness,goodcommunication,andagreatlovelife,weneedtoupdateourdatingskills.
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Myson'
sprimaryschoolcelebratesValentine'
sDayinawonderfulway.EachdaythroughoutthemonthofFebruary,theschoolhonorseachstudentininformalceremonies.Attheceremony,classmates,teachersandparentsgettogethertodelivercomplimentstothatparticularchild.Theybelievethatachild'
semotionalandsocialskillsshouldbedevelopedalongsidetheirintellectualskills.Learningtoacknowledgequalitiesandstrengthsinothers—andreceivingthatacknowledgmentgracefully—isaveryimportantlearninglesson.
IknowIcomplimentmysonfrequently,andcertainlytrytomakesureheknowsheisloved.ButIrealizethatIhaveneveractuallypointedout,onebyone,specificqualitiesthatmakehimuniqueandsospecialtome.Andhowinfrequentlywereallypointoutwhatisspecialinothers.Sure,wesay“Iloveyou”or“thanks”regularly,butwhendowetaketheopportunitytoreallyandtrulyexaminewhatmakesapersonspecial?
Whatisuniqueanddifferentaboutthem?
Thisyear,thetimewasscheduledformysontoreceivemorethan40complimentsfromhispeers,teachers,parents,andhimself.Eachchildhadtheirdayatthecenterofthecircle,theirfriendscominguponebyonetogiveagiftofpowerfulwords.Thisyear,mysonheardthathisthoughtfulnesswasappreciated,hisideasimportant,hisexpressionsinspiring.Hewasalsoexpectedtowriteanddeliveracomplimenttoeachofhisclassmates.
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Intheend,IhadtoaskmyhusbandtoreadmyValentinecomplimenttoourson.Iwassimplycryingtoohardtogetthewordsout.Witnessingthetendernessofschool-agechildrensayingwhattheythoughtwasspecialaboutmylittleboyprovedtoomuchforme.ButIwasnotalone.WhenIwarnedmysonImightgetemotional,hesaid,“That'
sOK.Lotsofparentscry.”Hewasright.
Thisiswhatmyhusbandreadtooursononmybehalf:
DearCole:
Yourloveoflanguageandinformationhasalwaysamazedme.Ilovelearningfromyouandwithyou.Iadmirehownewwordsaresoeasilyincorporatedintoyourvocabulary.Ithinkyouarefreshandeagerandloving.
Iadmirethatrelationshipsareimportanttoyou.Iliketolistentotheconnectionsyoumakewithpastexperiences.Ithinkyouaregoodatremembering.
Ilovehowyouareproudofyourselfwhenyoutrysomethingnew.Ifeelproud,too.
Ilikehowyourwholebodytellsastory,andyourexpressionsmakemefeelgood.Iamproudofyourwillingnesstoexpressyourfearsandappreciatethereminderthatyouwillgrowatthepacethatsuitsyoubest.Iloveyourjokesandyourfondnessfortellingthemoverandover—soIwilllaugh.Ithinkyouarefuntobewith.
Ilovethatyouaremyson.
Iamreallygratefultothisschoolforcreatingalearningenvironment.Theseexercisesben
HishamandIwillhavebeenmarriedfortwentyyearsthisFebruary.Everybodysaiditwouldnotwork.HeisJordanian,Muslim,andIamItalian,Catholic.WemetinFloridatwenty-twoyearsago.Whatwehadincommonwasnothingexceptyouth.HecouldbarelyspeaktheEnglishlanguage,andIthoughtArabswerefromIndia.WithinayearIfoundoutwhereJordanwasexactlyandhecouldsay“Iloveyou”inbrokenEnglish.
Whenwegotmarriedpeopleactuallyplacedbetsatoursmallweddinginmyfamily'
sdiningroom.Theythoughtourrelationshipwouldnotlastayear.Hishamdidnottellhisparentshewasmarriedforalmostfiveyears.Hefeltthatifhefailedatschoolhisfamilywouldblamethemarriage.Ofcourseeverybody,fromArabstoAmericans,thoughthemarriedmetogetagreencard.Iknewhedidn'
t.
Ilivedinhiscountryforsixyearsaftergraduationandhadasonthere.ThroughHisham'
seyesIsawthebeautyofhiscultureandreligionandthesimplewaysofhispeople.BeingfromNewYorkandlivinginAmman,Jordan,IstillhadmyChristmastreeeachyear,myEastereggsandevenaHalloweenpumpkininthewindow.Ialsotooksomeoftheirways—cooking,methodsofmothering,socializing—anditenhancedmyowncharacterinthelongrun.
Throughouttheyears,IwasnottheItaliangirlfromNewYork,nottheAmericanmarriedtotheArab;
Iwasabeautifulblendedpersonwithtwochildrenandamanwholovesme.
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Traditionallytheheartisthepartofthebodywhereemotionscomefrom.Ifyouareawarmheartedperson,forexample,youarekindandthoughtfultowardothers.Ifyouhaveaheartofgoldyouareaverygenerousperson.Butifyouareheartless,youarecruelandunfeeling.
Ofalltheemotions,itislovethatismostassociatedwiththeheart.Inlovesongsallovertheworld,lovealmostalwaysgoestogetherwithTheheart.AsthesongfromthemovieTitanicsays:
Youarehereinmyheartandmyheartwillgoonandon…Lovecantouchusonetimeandlastforalifetime,andneverletgotillweregone”
Perhapstheroleoftheheartinlovecomesfromwhathappenstoitwhenyoufeelreallyattractedtosomeone.Thestrongfeelingsofattractionmakeyourbreathingspeedupandyourheartbeatfaster.
UnitTwo
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