雅思英语作文 marriages 婚姻应由父母安排还是应该自己选择.docx

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雅思英语作文marriages婚姻应由父母安排还是应该自己选择

Insomecountries,marriagesarearrangedbytheparentsbutinothercases,peoplechoosetheirownmarriagepartner.

Discussbothsystemsandstatewhichonedoyouthinkisbetter.Givereasonsandrelevantexamplesforyouranswer.Youshouldwriteatleast250words.

ModelAnswer1:

Atthepresenttimemarriagepartnersarechosenbypeoplethemselves,butinthenearpast,thisdecisionwasmadebytheirparents.Inmyview,despitethoseparentsdon'twishbadtotheirchild,peopleshouldchoosebythemselveswhotheylove.Duetothat,theywillspendwholetheirlifetogether.Thefollowingessaywilldiscussbothsidesofthisissue.

Sincethedawnofthetime,themarriagewasanimportantpartofourlife.Becauseofthatchoiceofapartnerisatoughdecisionandpeoplehavetoconsideralldetailsbeforethemarriage.Inthenearpastchildrenalmosthadn'trightstochoosepartnerbythemselves,infact,onlyparentscoulddecidewhotheirchildisgoingtomarry.Parentsraisedachildandalldecisionsrelatedtotheirchildshouldbemadebythem.Parentsknowtheirkidbetterthaneveryoneandwhentheyaregivingtheminmarriage,theyaretakingintoaccountthecharacterofkid.

Butcurrentlythissituationhasbeenchanged,duetothatsomeparentsaren’tconcernedaboutthefutureoftheirchildandtryingtogivetheirchildtoafamilywhichisrich,itisnotalwaysfairtowardstochildren.Withoutlove,thereisnofuturefortheirkidsandasaresult,itleadstodivorce.Eventhen,therearenoidealpeopleandeveryonecouldmakeamistake,evenwhentheyarechoosingtheirfuturepartnerbythemselves.Peoplealwaysfallinlovewitheachotherbeforethemarriage.Afterthat,theirrelationshipswouldbecomecolderanditalsocouldleadtodivorce.

Afteranalysingbothsidesofthisissue,I'veconcludedthatinspiteofthoseparentstakingintoaccountalldetails,sometimestheyareforgottenaboutlove.Themainthingofmarriageistobindtwopeoplewhichareinlovewitheachother.Thus,peopleshouldchoosewhomtheylovebythemselves.

ModelAnswer2:

Theideathatamarriageshouldbearrangedbytheparentsofthecouple,orbyothermembersofthefamily,isquiteacceptabletosomesocieties,yetcompletelyoutofthequestionforothers.Italldependsonyourculturalexpectations.

Inso-calledwesternsocieties,itisveryunusualformarriagestobearranged.Mostyoungpeoplewouldnotwelcometheideathattheirparentshavetherighttochoosetheirpartnerforlife.Theyfeelthatarrangedmarriagesdenythemtheirfundamentalrighttochoose,eveniftheymakeabaddecision.

However,ifwearehonestaboutit,wemightacknowledgethatsomeparentsorganisetheirchildren'slivesinsuchawaythattheyarelikelytomeetandmarrypartnerstheparentsapproveo£Itcouldbesaidthatthisis,tosomeextent,similartoanarrangedmarriage.

Itisalwaysbetterwhenfamiliessupporttherelationshipandwelcomethegrandchildren.Peopleforwhomarrangedmarriagesaretheculturalnormoftenarguethatthelikelihoodofthemarriagelastingisgreaterwhenitissetupinthismanner.Parentscanbeassuredthattheirchildrenarejoiningafamilyofsimilarstandingandculturalbackground,andthis,inthelongrun,makesforamorestablesocietyifyourparents'marriagewasarranged,andhasworkedwell,thenwhyshouldyouquestionthecustom?

Theimportantthingtoensureisthatpeopleareneverforcedintoamarriagewhichwillmakethemunhappyorleadtoanunequalrelationshipwhereonepartnerisexploitedbytheother.Thisappliesinallsocietiesandsituations.

ModelAnswer3:

Marriageisalegalrelationshipbetweenmanandwomanwhichisoneofthemostimportantpartsinmostofthehuman'slife.Astimewentby,marriagehaschangedsignificantly.Inthepast,marriagewasarrangedbytheparentsorelderlyrelativesanditstillhappenstodaywiththelimitednumber.

Incontrast,nowadays,mostofthepeoplebelievethatchoosingtheirownmarriagepartneristhebestwaytohavealong-lastingrelationship.Thisessaywillcompareanddiscussbothsystems.Eachcountryhasitsowncultureandtradition.Fromthousandsormorecultures,marriageisacommontraditionalmostinallcountriesandtraditions.Insomecountries,mainlyinAsia,arrangedmarriageisverycommon.Marriageisarrangedbyparentsorfleshandbloodtodeterminethebestspousefortheirchildren.Itisbelievedbypeoplewhoconductthissystemthatevenifthebrideandgroomdonotloveeachotheratthebeginning,lovewillbloomeventually.

Moreover,thesepeopleassumethatthebenefitsofarrangedmarriageoutstripthedrawbacks.Byarrangingmarriage,parentscanprotecttheirchildrenfromnegativerelationshipslikefreesexorcohabitation.Besides,thepossibilityofdivorceisdeclinedsincetheparentsgenerallyselecttheirchildren'sspousebasedonthesimilarbackgroundsuchasreligion,tradition,language,andsocio-economicclass.

Fromanotherpointofview,manypeoplesupportthatmarriageshouldbebasedonlove.Theybelievethateveryonehastherightstofallinloveandtakeadecisionabouthis/herownmarriagepartner,withoutinterventionfromothers.Lovemarriageormarriagewhichcomesfromanownchoiceisverypopularinwesterncountriesandalsointhismodernera.Itiscommonlybelievedthatifpeoplemarrybecauseoflove,theywillhavearomanticrelationship.Sincetheyhaverecognisedeachother,theyareabletorespectandaccepttheirspouses'weaknesses.

Inaddition,peoplewhoopttothiswayhavearesponsibilityfortheirownchoice.Theywilltrytocopewiththeirproblemsandfindsolutionsfortheirmarriage'slife.Theyunderstandthattheycannotblameanyone,includingtheirparentsbecausethedecisiontomarrycomesfromthem.ThisisthetrendsIaminclinedto.Mypersonalpreferenceistomarryforloveandchoosingmyownlifepartner.

Inconclusion,botharrangedmarriageandlovemarriagehavepositiveandnegativesides.Peoplecanchoosewhattheythinkgoodtodoornot.Nevertheless,Ibelievethatmarriageisasacredandbeautifulrelationship.Ifpeopledecidetomarry,theyhavetounderstandthatrespecttoeachotherisasimportantaslove.Theyshouldrespectnotonlytotheirspousesbutalsototheirparentsandfamilies.

ModelAnswer4:

Itisafactthatinseveralcountries,marriagesarestillsetbyparents,butinothercountries,peoplehavetheirownrighttochoosetheirweddingpartners.Themixturesofthesetwotrendsarealsocommoninmanysocietiesandcountries.Thefollowingessaywilldiscussbothfacts,butIdobelievethatitisbetterforustochooseourownpartner.Foranumberofreasons,someparentsstillfollowthetraditionofchoosingapartnerfortheirchild.

Firstly,sinceitisatraditionthathasbeenpassedonforsomanygenerationsinthesociety.Theyareafraidthatitmightbeatabooiftheydonotfollowitandcouldbeisolatedbythecommunity.

Secondly,theybelievethatparentswouldgivethebestofeverythingtotheirchild.Theythinkthatparentsarewiserandmoremature,thereforetheycouldselectagoodpartnerfortheirchild.

However,othergroupsofpeopledisagreewiththeabovestatement,astheybelievethatpeopleshouldhavetherighttochoosetheirownpartner.Theybelievethatarelationshipshouldbebuiltbasedonloveandattraction,notbasedonenforcement.Asmarriagebecomesaspecialmomentinsomeone’slife,heshouldgetmarriedtothepersonhelovesorhemightregretitfortherestofhislife.

Therefore,theyallagreethatpeopleshouldhavetheirownrighttochoosetheirownmarriedpartner.

Inmyopinion,Ipersonallybelievethatweshouldhavetherighttochooseourownspouse,asIagreethatmarriageisaspecialmomentinsomeone’slife.AndIthinkthatthetraditionofarrangingmarriedbyparentsshouldnotbeconsideredanymoreasitisagainstthehumanright.