莱温斯基ted演讲稿 中英文.docx

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莱温斯基ted演讲稿中英文

莱温斯基ted演讲稿中英文

莱温斯基ted演讲稿中英文

人被赋予了平等的自由。

随着对可持续性的倡导，越来越多的人开始回收利用。

对于羞辱的文化也应如此，我们需要文化革命，公开羞辱这种流血的娱乐应当终止。

无论是因特网上、还是文化中，现在都该干预了。

转变可以从简单的事开始，不过它本身并不简单。

我们需要回归人类固有的一种价值，也就是同情心和同理心。

网上正在经历同情心缺乏和同理心危机。

引用研究者布琳·布朗的话，”羞辱在同理心下无法存活”。

我生命中经历了一些异常黑暗的日子，是来自家人、朋友、专业人士甚至一些陌生人的同情心和同理心拯救了我，哪怕只有一个人的理解也会很有用。

社会心理学家谢尔盖·莫斯科维奇所提出的小众影响理论认为哪怕是小众人群，只要能坚持下去，变化也能发生。

在网络世界中，我们可以通过站起来来培育小众影响力，站起来是说不再冷漠旁观而是发表积极评论支持受害者或是举报欺凌现象。

相信我，富有同情心的评论能够减少消极效果，我们还可以通过支持处理这类问题的组织机构来对抗这种羞辱文化。

例如：

美国有泰勒·克莱门蒂基金会，英国有反欺凌项目，澳大利亚有Rockit项目。

我们经常提到表达自由的权利，此外我们还应该更多地谈到我们在表达自由上的责任。

我们都希望自己的声音被听到，不过我们需要区分怀有意图的发声和请求关注的发声，因特网是表达自我的超级高速公路。

不过在网上换位思考他人处境对所有人都是有利的，而且能够帮助创建更安全更美好的世界。

我们需要怀着同情心在网上交流，怀着同情心阅读新闻，怀着同情心点击网站。

试想下自己活在别人的新闻头条里。

最后，我想以个人说明作结，过去九个月里我被问得最多的问题是为什么，为什么现在，为什么我要出这个头。

你们应该可以听出这些问题的言外之意。

答案同政治无关。

我的回答是：

因为是时候了，是时候不再为过去而小心翼翼，是时候不再背负耻辱地活着，是时候讲述自己的经历。

这不仅仅是为了拯救我自己，任何遭受耻辱和公开羞辱的人都需要知道一点——你能撑过来，我知道这很难，肯定会有痛苦，肯定不会来得轻松容易。

不过你能坚持下去并书写出不同的故事结局。

同情自己，我们都值得同情，无论线上还是线下，我们都需要生活在一个更富有同情心的世界。

谢谢聆听!

莱温斯基ted演讲稿（英文版）Yourelookingatawomanwhowaspubliclysilentforadecade.Obviously,thatschanged,butonlyrecently.ItwasseveralmonthsagothatIgavemyveryfirstmajorpublictalkattheForbes30Under30summit:

1,500brilliantpeople,allundertheageof30.Thatmeantthatin1998,theoldestamongthegroupwereonly14,andtheyoungest,justfour.Ijokedwiththemthatsomemightonlyhaveheardofmefromrapsongs.Yes,Iminrapsongs.Almost40rapsongs.Butthenightofmyspeech,asurprisingthinghappened.Attheageof41,Iwashitonbya27-year-oldguy.Iknow,right?

HewascharmingandIwasflattered,andIdeclined.Youknowwhathisunsuccessfulpickuplinewas?

Hecouldmakemefeel22again.Irealizedlaterthatnight,Improbablytheonlypersonover40whodoesnotwanttobe22again.Attheageof22,Ifellinlovewithmyboss,andattheageof24,Ilearnedthedevastatingconsequences.CanIseeashowofhandsofanyoneherewhodidntmakeamistakeordosomethingtheyregrettedat22?

Yep.ThatswhatIthought.Solikeme,at22,afewofyoumayhavealsotakenwrongturnsandfalleninlovewiththewrongperson,maybeevenyourboss.Unlikeme,though,yourbossprobablywasntthepresidentoftheUnitedStatesofAmerica.Ofcourse,lifeisfullofsurprises.NotadaygoesbythatImnotremindedofmymistake,andIregretthatmistakedeeply.In1998,afterhavingbeensweptupintoanimprobableromance,Iwasthensweptupintotheeyeofapolitical,legalandmediamaelstromlikewehadneverseenbefore.Remember,justafewyearsearlier,newswasconsumedfromjustthreeplaces:

readinganewspaperormagazine,listeningtotheradio,orwatchingtelevision.Thatwasit.Butthatwasntmyfate.Instead,thisscandalwasbroughttoyoubythedigitalrevolution.Thatmeantwecouldaccessalltheinformationwewanted,whenwewantedit,anytime,anywhere,andwhenthestorybrokeinJanuary1998,itbrokeonline.ItwasthefirsttimethetraditionalnewswasusurpedbytheInternetforamajornewsstory,aclickthatreverberatedaroundtheworld.WhatthatmeantformepersonallywasthatovernightIwentfrombeingapletelyprivatefiguretoapubliclyhumiliatedoneworldwide.Iwaspatientzerooflosingapersonalreputationonaglobalscalealmostinstantaneously.Thisrushtojudgment,enabledbytechnology,ledtomobsofvirtualstone-throwers.Granted,itwasbeforesocialmedia,butpeoplecouldstillmentonline,emailstories,and,ofcourse,emailcrueljokes.Newssourcesplasteredphotosofmeallovertosellnewspapers,banneradsonline,andtokeeppeopletunedtotheTV.Doyourecallaparticularimageofme,say,wearingaberet?

Now,IadmitImademistakes,especiallywearingthatberet.ButtheattentionandjudgmentthatIreceived,notthestory,butthatIpersonallyreceived,wasunprecedented.Iwasbrandedasatramp,tart,slut,whore,bimbo,and,ofcourse,thatwoman.Iwasseenbymanybutactuallyknownbyfew.AndIgetit:

itwaseasytoforgetthatthatwomanwasdimensional,hadasoul,andwasonceunbroken.Whenthishappenedtome17yearsago,therewasnonameforit.Nowwecallitcyberbullying（网络欺凌）andonlineharassment（网络骚扰）.Today,Iwanttosharesomeofmyexperiencewithyou,talkabouthowthatexperiencehashelpedshapemyculturalobservations,andhowIhopemypastexperiencecanleadtoachangethatresultsinlesssufferingforothers.In1998,Ilostmyreputationandmydignity.Ilostalmosteverything,andIalmostlostmylife.Letmepaintapictureforyou.ItisSeptemberof1998.ImsittinginawindowlessofficeroominsidetheOfficeoftheIndependentCounselunderneathhummingfluorescentlights.Imlisteningtothesoundofmyvoice,myvoiceonsurreptitiouslytapedphonecallsthatasupposedfriendhadmadetheyearbefore.ImherebecauseIvebeenlegallyrequiredtopersonallyauthenticateall20hoursoftapedconversation.Forthepasteightmonths,themysteriouscontentofthesetapeshashungliketheSwordofDamoclesovermyhead.Imean,whocanrememberwhattheysaidayearago?

Scaredandmortified,Ilisten,listenasIprattleonabouttheflotsamandjetsamoftheday;listenasIconfessmyloveforthepresident,and,ofcourse,myheartbreak;listentomysometimescatty,sometimeschurlish,sometimessillyselfbeingcruel,unforgiving,uncouth;listen,deeply,deeplyashamed,totheworstversionofmyself,aselfIdontevenrecognize.Afewdayslater,theStarrReportisreleasedtoCongress,andallofthosetapesandtrans,thosestolenwords,formapartofit.Thatpeoplecanreadthetransishorrificenough,butafewweekslater,theaudiotapesareairedonTV,andsignificantportionsmadeavailableonline.Thepublichumiliationwasexcruciating.Lifewasalmostunbearable.Thiswasnotsomethingthathappenedwithregularitybackthenin1998,andbythis,Imeanthestealingofpeoplesprivatewords,actions,conversationsorphotos,andthenmakingthempublic--publicwithoutconsent,publicwithoutcontext,andpublicwithoutpassion.Fastforward12yearsto201X,andnowsocialmediahasbeenborn.Thelandscapehassadlybeemuchmorepopulatedwithinstanceslikemine,whetherornotsomeoneactuallymakeamistake,andnowitsforbothpublicandprivatepeople.Theconsequencesforsomehavebeedire,verydire.IwasonthephonewithmymominSeptemberof201X,andweweretalkingaboutthenewsofayoungcollegefreshmanfromRutgersUniversitynamedTylerClementi.Sweet,sensitive,creativeTylerwassecretlywebcammedbyhisroommatewhilebeingintimatewithanotherman.Whentheonlineworldlearnedofthisincident,theridiculeandcyberbullyingignited.Afewdayslater,TylerjumpedfromtheGeorgeWashingtonBridgetohisdeath.Hewas18.MymomwasbesideherselfaboutwhathappenedtoTylerandhisfamily,andshewasguttedwithpaininawaythatIjustcouldntquiteunderstand,andtheneventuallyIrealizedshewasreliving1998,relivingatimewhenshesatbymybedeverynight,relivingatimewhenshemademeshowerwiththebathroomdooropen,andrelivingatimewhenbothofmyparentsfearedthatIwouldbehumiliatedtodeath,literally.Today,toomanyparentshaventhadthechancetostepinandrescuetheirlovedones.Toomanyhavelearnedoftheirchildssufferingandhumiliationafteritwastoolate.Tylerstragic,senselessdeathwasaturningpointforme.Itservedtorecontextualizemyexperiences,andIthenbegantolookattheworldofhumiliationandbullyingaroundmeandseesomethingdifferent.In1998,wehadnowayofknowingwherethisbravenewtechnologycalledtheInternetwouldtakeus.Sincethen,ithasconnectedpeopleinunimaginableways,joininglostsiblings,savinglives,launchingrevolutions,butthedarkness,cyberbullying,andslut-shamingthatIexperiencedhadmushroomed.Everydayonline,people,especiallyyoungpeoplewhoarenotdevelopmentallyequippedtohandlethis,aresoabusedandhumiliatedthattheycantimaginelivingtothenextday,andsome,tragically,dont,andtheresnothingvirtualaboutthat.ChildLine,aU.K.nonprofitthatsfocusedonhelpingyoungpeopleonvariousissues,releasedastaggeringstatisticlatelastyear:

From201Xto201X,therewasan87percentincreaseincallsandemailsrelatedtocyberbullying.Ameta-analysisdoneoutoftheNetherlandsshowedthatforthefirsttime,cyberbullyingwasleadingtosuicidalideationsmoresignificantlythanofflinebullying.Andyouknowwhatshockedme,althoughitshouldnthave,wasotherresearchlastyearthatdeterminedhumiliationwasamoreintenselyfeltemotionthaneitherhappinessorevenanger.Crueltytoothersisnothingnew,butonline,technologicallyenhancedshamingisamplified,uncontained,andpermanentlyaccessible.Theechoofembarrassmentusedtoextendonlyasfarasyourfamily,village,schoolormunity,butnowitstheonlinemunitytoo.Millionsofpeople,oftenanonymously,canstabyouwiththeirwords,andthatsalotofpain,andtherearenoperimetersaroundhowmanypeoplecanpubliclyobserveyouandputyouinapublicstockade.Thereisaverypersonalpricetopublichumiliation,andthegrowthoftheInternethasjackedupthatprice.Fornearlytwodecadesnow,wehaveslowlybeensowingtheseedsofshameandpublichumiliationinourculturalsoil,bothon-andoffline.Gossipwebsites,paparazzi,realityprogramming,politics,newsoutletsandsometimeshackersalltrafficinshame.Itsledtodesensitizationandapermissiveenvironmentonlinewhichlendsitselftotrolling,invasionofprivacy,andcyberbullying.ThisshifthascreatedwhatProfessorNicolausMillscallsacultureofhumiliation.Considerafewprominentexamplesjustfromthepastsixmonthsalone.Snapchat,theservicew