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[3]Itcan（becolorful/rich）.Iwasonceinvitedtothe60thanniversarycelebrationofaremarkable（worthmentioning）couple.Iaskedthehusband,Peter,ifheeverfeltlonelyandwonderedwherethelovebetweenhimandLitahadgone.Peterlaughedandsaid,"

Ifyouwonderwhereyourlovewent,youforgotthatyouaretheonewhomakes（cultivate/develop）it.Loveisnotoutthere;

it'

sinherebetweenLitaandme."

[4]Iknowwecanlovedeeply,tenderlyandlastingly（forever）.Ihaveseensuchlove,andIhavefeltsuchlovemyself.HerearethelawsIhavediscoveredforsuchlastingandlovingrelationships:

[5]Puttime（invest）whereloveis.Afulfilling（successful）marriagebeginswhentwopeoplemaketimetogethertheirNo.1priority.Ifwehopetofindlove,wemustfirstfind（spare,vt.）timeforloving.

[6]Unfortunately（unluckily）,current（present）psychologyrestson（basedon）themodeloftheindependentego.Tomakealastingmarriagewehavetoovercomeself-centeredness（selfishness）.WemustgobeyondwhatpsychologistAbrahamMaslowcalled"

self-actualization"

to"

us-actualization"

.Wehavetolearntoputtimewhereloveis.

[7]Manycoupleshaveexperiencedatragicmomentthattaughtthemtovaluethetimetogether.Onehusbandrelated（said）howhesattrappedinhiscarafteracrash.Hiswifewasoutside,cryingandbangingonthewindow."

IthoughtIwasgoingtodiebeforewe'

d（had）hadenoughtimetogether,"

hetoldme."

RightthenIpromisedtomakethetimetolovemywife.Ourtimeisourownnow,andthosehoursaresacred."

[8]Incrisis,becomeasone.Justafteracoupleleftmyofficeoneevening,Iheardwhatsoundedlikeagunshot.Ilookedoutthewindowandsawthecouplebacking（withdraw）towardtheircar,andtheshadowofalargefigurenearastreetlight.Clingingtogether,thehusbandandwifekeptbackingaway.Thefigurequickenedhispacetowardthem,andthecouplejoinedhandsandrantotheircar.

[9]AsIdialedsecurity,thefigurecamecloser,andIsawitwasoneofourguards.Ilaterdiscoveredthatthe"

shot"

wasanoisethathasnothingtodowithmycouple,buttheydidn'

tknowthat.Likeherdanimals,theyhadreactedtodangerbycomingtogether,ina"

couplecautioncircle"

.（Whentheywere）Threatened,theyhadbecomeone.[herdsman;

becautiousofsth.]

[10]WhenIwasstrugglingwithcancerafewyearsago,mywifeandIformedourown"

.Anytime（when）adoctorcamewithnewsofmyprogress,mywifewouldjoinwithmeinamutualembrace（hug）.Thereportswereseldomgoodduringtheearlyphases（stages）ofmyillness,andonedayadoctorbroughtparticularly（especially）frighteningnews.Gazingathisclipboard,hemurmured,"

Itdoesn'

tlooklikeyou'

regoingtomakeit（succeed）."

[11]BeforeIcouldaskaquestionofthisdoomsayer,mywifestoodup,handedmemyrobe,adjustedthetubesattachedtomybodyandsaid,"

Let'

sgetoutofhere.Thismanisarisktoyourhealth."

As（when）shehelpedmestruggletothedoor,thedoctorapproachedus."

Stayback,"

demanded（ordered）mywife."

Stayawayfromus（Leaveusalone）."

[12]As（When）wewalkedtogetherdownthehall,thedoctorattempted（tried）tocatchupwithus."

Keepgoing,"

saidmywife,pushingtheintravenousstand."

We'

regoingtotalktosomeonewhoreallyknowswhatisgoingon."

Thensheheldupherhandtothedoctor."

Don'

tcomeanyclosertous."

[13]Thetwoofusmovedasone.Wefled（flee->

fleet/escaped）tothesafetyandhopeofadoctorwhodidnotconfusediagnosiswithverdict.Icouldneverhavemadethatwalktowardwellness（safety/health）alone.

[14]Takealovinglook.Howweseeourpartnersoftendependsmoreonhowwearethanhowtheyare.Husbandsandwivesarenotaudience,butparticipantobserversineachother'

slives.

[15]"

Beforeweweremarried,myhusbandwasacaring（considerate）energeticman,"

awifeoncetoldme."

Hecouldn'

tseemtokeephishandsoffme.Sincewe'

vebeenmarried,he'

sbecomeacouchpotatoandwatchesballgamesmorethanhewatchesme.He'

sgonefromstudtospud."

[16]"

Veryfunny,"

answeredthehusband."

Buthaveyoulookedatyourselflately（recently）?

Whenwegotmarried,youwerebeautiful.Nowyouwearthatoldrobe.IfI'

vegonefromstudtospud,thenyou'

vegonefromdoll（angel）todrudge（黄脸婆/豆腐皮）."

（intelligent/handsome/beautiful/considerate）

[17]Thishurtful,infantileargumentillustrates（shows）howspouses,insteadoflookingforlove,maylookforflaws.Itisawayofseeing.

[18]AuthorJudithViorstoncewrote,"

Infatuation（foolishness）iswhenyouthinkhe'

sasgorgeousasRobertRedford,aspure（innocent）asSolzhenitsyn,asfunny（interesting/humorous）asWoodyAllen,asathleticasJimmyConnors,andassmartasAlbertEinstein.Loveiswhenyourealizehe'

sasgorgeousasWoodyAllen,assmart（clever）asJimmyConnors,asfunnyasSolzhenitsyn,asathleticasAlbertEinstein,andnothinglikeRobertRedfordinanycategory（degree）--butyou'

lltake（accept）himanyway."

[19]Thislawoflastingloveinstructs（teaches）ustolookwithinsteadofforlove.

[20]Tryanotherperspective."

Can'

tyouseehowwrongyouareaboutmymother?

anangrywifeusedtosay."

She'

sbeenasainttous,yetyoumakeherouttobeademon（devil）."

[makeout=consider/regard]

[21]"

Howcanyousaythat?

herhusbandwouldanswer."

Anybodywithanyintelligencecouldseewhatapain（nuisance）yourmotheris."

[22]Thisargumentillustrates（show）howsomepeoplespendtheirmarriagesstrugglingtochangeaspouse'

smind.Peopleinlasting-lovemarriagesbeginwiththepremisethattherearemanyrealities.Theylearntoacceptdifferentpointsofview.[spendtime/moneydoingsth.]

[23]Whenthiscouplebrokefreeoftheirone-realitytrap,theirproblemsweresolved."

Mymotherisaloving,caringpainintheneck,"

thewifenowadmitted.

[24]Asanotherhusbandsaidofhiswife,"

smyeye-opener.SheseeswhatInevercould.Idothesame（thing）forher.Wemakeamaritalpointofviewbetweenthetwoofusthatistotallydifferentfromeitheroneofus."

[25]Thelastingmarriageisneversureoftheseparate"

selves（parts）"

thatmakeitup.Butithascompleteconfidencethattherelationshipwillgrowinanever-endingprocessoflearning.

[26]LookoutforNo.2.Thereisapowerfulhealingenergythatemanatesfromloving.Lastinglovecanlearntosense（feel）it,send（give）itandmakeitgrow.Weareenergized（motivated）byloveifweputourenergyintoloving.

[27]Badenergyspringsfrom（stemfrom）conflictsthatarise（occurred）whentwoegoscollide.WhenIwatchhusbandsandwivesarguewitheachother,Iwanttoshout:

"

Growup,stopfighting,startloving!

Itisbettertolearnhowtolovethanhowtofight.Don'

ttrytowininyourmarriage,winforyourmarriage.

[28]Marriageisdesigned（intended）primarilyforgivingratherthantaking.Itismeant（intended）tobeapermanentunionoftwounselfishpeople.Asonehusbandtoldme,"

TheoldsayingwaslookoutforNo.1.Butwe'

velearnedtolookoutforNo.2.Ifyoufightforyourself,onlyyoucanwin.Whenyoufightforyourmarriage,youbothwin."

（1,261words）

Abouttheauthor

PaulPearsailisanAmericancontemporaryauthor,directorofproblemsofDailyLivingClinicinSinaiHospitalofDetroit,Michigan,lectureratHenryFordCommunityCollegeandWayneStateUniversityanddirectorofKinseySummerInstitute.HismajorwritingsincludeMasterYourEmotionsandImproveYourHealth（1986）,SuperMaritalSex:

LovingforLife（1987）,SuperJoy:

DelightinDailyLiving（1988）,etc.

Exercises

I.ReadingComprehension

Answerthefollowingquestionsorcompletethefollowingstatements.

1.Acouplewhowonderwheretheirlovehasgoneprobably_____.

A.forgetthatitistheywhocreatedthelove

B.haveneverbeenabletofindlove

C.haveneverhadfulfilledrelationships

D.aretoopassionate

2.Whatisthemostimportantthingacoupleissupposedtodotohaveafulfillingmarriage?

A.Torestonindependentego.

B.Tosetasidetimeforloving.

C.Togobeyondlove.

D.Tolearnwhereloveis.

3.Whathasthehusbandtrappedinacaraccidentlearnedaboutlove?

A.Howsacredloveis.

B.Howtragicanaccidentis.

C.Thetimewithhiswifeisprecious.

D.Morepromisestohiswifearenecessary.

4.Whichofthefollowingbestexplains"

?

A.Acouplearemorecautiouswhentheyaretogether.

B.Itreferstopeople'

sherd-animal-likereactiontodanger.

C.Itisacrisisthatisrelatedtobothhusbandandwife.

D.Acouplebecomemorecloselyunitedintooneintimesofdanger.

5.Afterhearingthedoctor'

scomment,theauthor'

swife_____.

A.believedthatthedoctormadethediagnosiswithevilintentions

B.concludedthatdoctorwasnogoodtoherhusband

C.decidedtoquitanymedicaltreatmentimmediately

D.demandedtohaveanotherfavorableverdict

6.Whichofthefollowingbestillustrates"

takingalovinglook"

A.Loveme,lovemydog.

B.Loveisblind.

C.Beautyisintheeyeofthebeholder.

D.Beautyandchastity